think about it : you were rejected and ignored for decades, a foid asks you to go clubbing, cuddle, fuck at your hotel room, out of the blue ?!
that is a red flag, she can shoot you, bring 5 tyrones to rub you, poor acid on you, stab you in your sleep, mock you.
if you go to an escort, always go to her place or hotel so there is a registration of who the fuck she is.
make sure she is not a cop : ask her to strip 1st, show you her pussy.